Monthly Archives: February 2009

Jennifer Holder on A New Year is a Good Time to Free Tibet

The following is a guest post written by Jennifer Holder, who works in editorial at AMACOM.

Wednesday was the Tibetan New Year, and the Year of the Earth Ox is here. According to the zodiac, it is a time in which exertion, stamina, and joy dominate our lives. At AMACOM, we are excited for the publication of Freeing Tibet.

But the day was not celebrated by everyone. Although many Tibetan Buddhists around the world welcomed the Ox with juniper bonfires, chanting, aspirations, and by blowing their horns, in Tibet the day was much different. As one chanting monk made clear to the New York Times, theirs was a ceremony of mourning, not celebration.

According to the Tibetan Government in Exile, last year’s protests against Chinese rule led to the deaths of 200 people. As NPR reports, “Now, a mood of quiet desperation prevails… where the sound of resistance is silence.” Many Tibetans across the world are boycotting New Year festivities, and the Dalai Lama approves.

Much was said this fall about the Dalai Lama’s nonviolent stance, even among the Tibetan community. Questions about whether the nonviolent approach is the best approach abound. Plus with his waning health, everyone is wondering who his successor should be, with ideas ranging from the appointment of a regent to China’s insistence that it has the right to choose the Dalai Lama’s next reincarnation.

But the painful reality of the standoff between Tibet and China remains. March 10 is the 50th anniversary of a failed Tibetan uprising, after which the Dalai Lama fled into exile. This failed attempt and its consequences – for Tibet, China, the US, and the world — is chronicled in our book Freeing Tibet by John and Elizabeth Roberts and on their website and blog. As Buddhist professor Robert Thurman says, “The more we learn about Tibet, the beauty of her people and their culture, and the agony of her brutal subjugation… the more we feel committed to ‘Freeing Tibet.’

Jennifer Holder is an editorial assistant at AMACOM, a member of an international Buddhist community, and an editor of the online news magazine www.shambhalatimes.org.

Stacey Rubin on Facebook’s Breastfeeding Photo Ban

Stacey RubinThe following is a guest post by Stacey H. Rubin, M.N., APRN, IBCLC, an Advanced Practice Registered Nurse, an Internationally Board Certified Lactation Consultant, and author of The ABCs of Breastfeeding: Everything a Mom Needs to Know for a Happy Nursing Experience (AMACOM 2008), in response to Facebook‘s ban on photos of breastfeeding mothers. Currently, Facebook is standing firm on its ban (NYTimes Bits), recently overshadowed by its change in Terms of Service (Mashable).

It is hard to ignore Facebook’s prevalence today as it dominates social networking online. However, in matters of modern mothering, Facebook lags woefully behind the times. Facebook bans pictures of breastfeeding mothers from its website. Many mothers were shocked to discover that their photos had been removed from their Facebook page. Facebook claimed the images revealed too much nipple and areola and were therefore indecent. Nursing mothers were quick to object by circulating an Internet petition and staging a live nurse-in outside Facebook headquarters.

I believe Facebook’s Victorian attitude toward the lactating breast speaks to the fact that we live in a formula feeding society. Formula, bottles, and pacifiers are still perceived as the normal and acceptable way for a baby to be fed. Despite society’s [and Facebook’s] preference for formula feeding, the fact is, mothers’ milk is far superior in every way to commercial infant formula. Breast milk supports and promotes a baby’s physical, emotional, and intellectual development in ways that manufactured infant formula does not. Furthermore, the act of nursing fosters a unique relationship between a mother and her child that cannot be copied.

Sadly, too many moms abandon breastfeeding before reaping all the benefits that it has to offer. One of the biggest advantages of breastfeeding is its convenience. Mother’s milk is always safe, available, and ready at just the perfect temperature.

Despite the convenience of a breastfeeding relationship, many mothers tell me they feel embarrassed and reluctant to breastfeed their baby in a public place. The current climate is often less than welcoming toward a nursing mom and her hungry baby. One of my clients, an experienced mother of three, confided that she feared public disapproval and therefore went to great lengths to avoid needing to nurse her youngest baby outside of home. Before an outing, she would pump her breast milk into a bottle and transport the milk with her in a cooler. If her baby stirred in hunger while away from home, she would bottle feed her baby instead of nursing.

My client’s anxiety is not unwarranted. Recently I heard of an incident were a store employee told a young nursing mother to leave the premises. The mother was devastated and left in tears. Incredibly, this incident occurred in a specialty store that caters to the mothers of young children! Unfortunately, Facebook’s inhospitable policy toward nursing couples will only serve to undermine a new mother’s confidence in her natural ability to breastfeed.

Open your eyes Facebook and lead the way toward a breastfeeding–friendly society! Today’s generation of nursing babies are destined for a healthy, happy and prosperous tomorrow. Today’s breastfeeding babies are your future subscribers. Why not let these babies enjoy a meal on your web-space?

Stacey H. Rubin, M.N., APRN, IBCLC is an Advanced Practice Registered Nurse, an Internationally Board Certified Lactation Consultant, and author of The ABCs of Breastfeeding: Everything a Mom Needs to Know for a Happy Nursing Experience (AMACOM 2008). After graduating magna cum laude from Villanova University with a Bachelor of Science in Nursing degree, she was commissioned as an Army Nurse Corp officer and served overseas during the First Gulf War. Following four years of active duty military service, she earned a Master of Nursing degree and moved to Connecticut where she works with the Connecticut Children’s Medical Center, runs her own private practice, and lives with her husband and two children. Learn more at abcsofbreastfeeding.com.

Happy Losar!

Happy Losar! Happy Tibetan New Year everyone!

Losar is celebrated on the lunar calendar, usually coinciding with the Chinese New Year. People come together to celebrate with chanting, ceremonies, and other festivities.

But it’s a different Tibet this Losar as a new New York Times article explains:

“There is no Losar,” he said, standing in this monastery town on the edge of the Tibetan plateau. “They killed so many people last year.”

A few weeks ahead of the 50th anniversary of a failed Tibetan uprising against Chinese rule, and a year after a crackdown on renewed ethnic unrest in this area, Tibetans are quietly but irrepressibly seething. Monks, nomads and merchants have turned the joyous Losar holiday into a dirge, memorializing Tibetans who died in last year’s conflict and pining for the return of the exiled Dalai Lama.

We wish everyone the best in the new year.

For more about Tibet, check out our upcoming book, Freeing Tibet: 50 Years of Struggle, Resilience, and Hope by John B. Roberts II and Elizabeth A. Roberts, which will be published on March 10, 2009 — 50 years after the Dalai Llama crossed over from Tibet to India, beginning his rule in exile.

Publishers Weekly said “Former Reagan strategist Roberts and journalist Elizabeth Roberts draw on unprecedented access to the Dalai Lama’s circle and U.S. government insiders to recount Tibet’s resistance movement and its unlikely allies….this book offers a clear overview of the key issues and conveys why Tibet’s situation is more urgent that ever” and Kirkus wrote “A treasure trove of information about Tibet’s ordeal….[an] informative take on an important aspect of Asian political history.”

Learn more at freeingtibet.com or @freeingtibet.

Introducing AMACOM… Cathleen

Cathleen Ouderkirk is the Creative Director here at AMACOM. Embarrassed to admit that she started at AMACOM two decades ago (when, as she points out, I was playing with Barbie), she started as a copywriter–writing press releases and jacket copy—and then moved to producing catalogs, sales sheets, and direct mail pieces, before moving on to design. She noticed that our book jackets weren’t as nuanced as they could be and so stayed late for three years, designing on her own and secretly showing them to the acquisition editors, slowly evolving her work into overseeing all of our jackets today.

Every book has a face, but can you tell which one is Cathleen?

Every book has a face, but can you tell which one is Cathleen?

What were you doing before you joined AMACOM?

I was copywriting for a tough old publishing maven named Pat Dickerman who published a continuing series called Farm, Ranch, and Country Vacations. The first edition came out in 1949! I helped with the the XXnd edition in 1989 and I just checked, she published another one in 1995—and when I say “she published,” I mean EVERYTHING—she solicited farmers and ranchers, wrote the copy, edited it, got it printed, sold it, and distributed herself. It was actually a great gig because I learned all about the awe-inspiring western parks we have in this country. Ever been to Glacier or the Tetons or Bryce?

Before that, I had tried advertising for two or three years—sheer misery, crushing pressure, and anxiety over what—Fried chicken! Tampons! Tissues! Frozen entrees! Jeez.

What are some of your responsibilities as a Creative Director?

I have one responsibility — to produce an appropriate and attractive “face” for every book. For some covers it needs to simply be clear and clean and reassuring, like The Other Kind of Smart, for others, like Food Fray, or All Customers Are Irrational you want something intriguing. I work with a team of between four and ten freelance designers from all over the country to create covers. I’ve worked with some designers for eight years and don’t even know what they look like.

What are the big challenges you face in your job?

Matching the right designer to the right book, and describing what we need clearly enough to get a first round that’s in the ballpark. Fortunately, we’re a unified team here at AMACOM — we have pretty similar tastes and Jenny Wesselmann Schwartz our Trade Marketing Director is clear about what she wants, which makes my job a lot easier. Yes, Wesselmann as in Tom Wesselmann, so yeah, she’s got an eye for color.

You’d think a really good designer could design in many different styles, but not so. One of our best, most conceptual designers cannot create a simple, handsome jacket to save his life. His work is either phenomenally interesting or ugly!

What AMACOM book are you really excited about right now?
Clintonomics
I’m excited about Clintonomics: How Bill Clinton Reengineered the Reagan Revolution. I’m no economist (nowhere near), but I’ve always been under the impression that Clinton and Reagan were like night and day, like yellow and purple, like chocolate and brussel sprouts. At any rate, it’s fascinating to read about how interconnected their approaches actually were — and to learn something about our country and the forces that make it function…or not!

What book are you reading at the moment?

Just finished Revolutionary Road by Richard Yates (not because there’s a movie version—my husband recommended it a year ago.) The observations of the hilarious and sad interactions within an intelligent but highly flawed couple really captured me. It was also the first book in a long time to get a unanimous positive response from all six members of my book club. Even Melanie, who doesn’t like “down” stories (and, yes, this one gets about as down as you can get at one point) found it really involving. Some call it “bleak” but we all found it brimming and fighting for life.

Question for any Revolutionary Road readers out there: Frank Wheeler (the husband) seems to me to be a highly selfish and small-minded man (made interesting by the contrast with his outward rep as a hip, enlightened dude), but some of my book club mates felt sorry for him. What? Anybody else have that reaction?

What book do you want everyone to discover?

Hmm, that’s a big question, but of course the must-read for me is Remains of the Day by Kazuo Ishiguro. (yes, made into a film with Anthony Hopkins and Emma Thompson). Such an accurate, painful, but appreciative revealing of a small, faithful life. Reminds me of my dad–worked so hard, expected so little.

Final words?

No final words — always have more to say. Can I write something next month? So many great books out there (and in here) to discuss.

Books for Moody Teenagers

We all know that sullen one in the corner with that weird clothing that young people wear and then despair of the future. But enough about my place in the office…

We like teenagers, especially when they like to read, so here are some books for your moody (or non-moody) teenager:

Do you have any idea how lucky you are?

Not My Turn to Die: Memoirs of a Broken Childhood in Bosnia by Savo Heleta describes his experience of as a young Bosnian Serb in the besieged (by Serbs) Bosniak- (Muslim) dominated city of Gorazde as the country was torn apart into ethnic factions during the war. Savo also describes how he overcame the hatred that such a situation creates and went his quest to make the world a better place, as he studies conflict resolution in South Africa now.

Comes the Darkness, Comes the Light: A Memoir of Cutting, Healing, and Hope by Vanessa Vega follows her descent into hurting herself to cope with anxiety and her gradual climb back to emotional health. Your daughter a Amy Winehouse fan? Maybe this can give her some insight into Amy’s troubled mind and her compulsion to cut.

Scheisshaus Luck: Surviving the Unspeakable in Auschwitz and Dora by Pierre Berg with Brian Brock follows 19-year-old Pierre as he is arrested by the Gestapo, being in the wrong place in the wrong time, shipped off to Drancy before being deported to Auschwitz and Dora, until finally escaping during a battle between the Nazis and the Red Army.

Did you fill out your college applications?

Scholarships 101: The Real-World Guide to Getting Cash for College by Kimberly Stezala gives you a reality-check on how to market yourself to get free cash. Yes, market yourself. You don’t need to be a star athlete or honor roll material, but with Kim’s help you can approach the scholarship application process like a pro.

25 Ways to Make College Pay Off: Advice for Anxious Parents from a Professor Who’s See It All by Professor Bill Coplin can help get your parents off your back by showing how they can step back and get perspective. Tip: Helicoptering does not help.

Do you have a summer job?

Yes, I’m building my own online…

Internet Riches: The Simple Money-Making Secrets of Online Millionaires by Scott Fox gives you the run-down on how to start your own successful business online. You might not be one of the millionaires, but it can beat the $5/hour at the local grocery store.

The Unofficial Guide to Building Your Business in the Second Life Virtual World: Marketing and Selling Your Product, Services, and Brand In-World by Sue Martin Mahar and Jay Mahar does exactly what the title says and you’ll get advice from everyone–our savvy authors, SL’s creator, professors studying virtual worlds, virtual fashion designer making over $100,000/year, and more.

No, I’m thinking long-term…

Career Match: Connecting Who You Are with What You’ll Love to Do by Shoya Zichy and Ann Bidou is a much-improved version of that test everyone takes and tells you that your ideal job is farmer (really, farmer?!?!). Instead, self-assess your personality (in a more friendly way than MBTI) and then get a range of careers that match that personality.

Smarts: Are We Hardwired for Success? by Chuck Martin with Peg Dawson and Richard Guare will “change how you think about your strengths & weaknesses & everyone who annoys you” according to its lovely editor. Another great skills profile that will help you realize what you really need to improve on and evaluate those around you.

Did you complete your extra credit?

Furnace of Creation, Cradle of Destruction: A Journey to the Birthplace of Earthquakes, Volcanoes, and Tsunamis by Roy Chester, Ph.D. has everything–explosions, natural disasters, lava, and mystery. Get on the trail of earth science with a renowned scientist and impress your friends and enemies.

Taking the Sea: Perilous Waters, Sunken Ships, and the True Story of the Legendary Wrecker Captains by Dennis M. Powers has something every book should have–pirates! Ok most are incorporating zombies right now, but I’m all for the piracy trend. Technically, they are “wreckers” but they steal loot with a lot of daring-do which is good enough for me.

Hope you like them.